While no two women are the same, they should still be treated with equal respect when it comes to intimacy. There are certain things that you should not even suggest doing, especially if you do not really know her. If you are in a relationship and you both share mutual understanding about your freaky advances, then that’s okay. If however, you have opportunity of sleeping with a woman that you barely know, do not use that opportunity to experiment on her. There are good and bad ways of freaking in bed. Avoid the bad ways if you want the woman to sleep with you again.
1. Slapping and biting her
These are an absolute no-no when it comes to bedroom ethics with a date. What are you whipping her ass for? And while a little gentle nibbling here and there is okay, biting her is not okay. Come on guys, save the slapping and biting for someone who appreciates it. Just this act will send some women rushing to the nearest exit. Don’t even think that you could stand a second chance. You could be some freaky serial butt spanking cannibal for all she cares. As a man, you should try to control your desires and control yourself. Yes, it’s challenging sometimes, especially if you are in an extremely passionate mood. But if you want to keep a good reputation with women, then you should refrain and desist.
2. Role playing and dirty talk
Again, these are things best done with women that you are very familiar with, provided are receptive of it. These are not appropriate behavior to share with a stranger. Furthermore, some women like role play and some do not. If you made arrangements to role play sex with someone, then that’s the decision for both of you. When having sex with someone you do not know avoid excessive swearing and do not annoy her with repetitive dirty talk. Secondly, do not ask her to be your dirty little maid or your dirty little girl. These situations can put women in an embarrassing position. Finally, some men like to play the role of bloodsucking vampires and rapists in the bedroom. Pretend to be one of these on with your next date and you might wake up to the cops at your door. Acting out roles to terrorize women is totally uncool. If these are your fantasies, it is best to keep them to yourself.
3. Bringing in your sex toys
The use of sex toys can be beneficial in the enhancement of sexual relations. But this is only good if you have the consent of the other party. If however, you are in bed with a girl you hardly know, do not introduce her to Tom Jocks and Hennery Butter. They may be your friends, but certainly not hers. She might ponder at your absurdity in bringing your toys to her in the first place. She has no idea how filthy they are. She does not know how you cleaned them, how many persons have used them before and used them for who knows what. So do not bring your sex toys to bed with a stranger. She will be repulsed by your very intention.
4. Banging her too hard
Self-control and constraint are essential for proper sexual conduct. Some women do enjoy rough, hard sex but others do not. Before you go down on her in a rough way, have a discussion to find out if it is okay with her. Having sex too hard can hurt a woman. So never take it upon your head to penetrate her too hard. Masculinity can be gentle and restrained, not necessarily rough and tough. Rough sex also includes pulling her hair and clutching her neck as though you are trying to strangle her. Do not try to maneuver her into some awkward positions either, or toss her about the room like a rag doll. This is no exaggeration as it may seem. These are real things that some women go through. Be a responsible man. If you don’t intend to hurt the woman you are with, don’t have rough sex with her unless she consents to it. If you do, prepare not to hear from her again until she sends the medical bill.
5. Forcing her to do something she does not want to do.
If you push someone to do something that they would not normally do, they might resent you forever. This is the same for women in the bedroom. Do not force a woman to please you in ways that make her uncomfortable. These acts include the famous pushing her head down to your crotch and the ‘accidentally’ poking her in the ass. If you want something special done for you, just ask her. If she does not agree do not try to coerce her into doing it.
All these are really great ways to have a woman rushing out your doors. However, you are a man, not an animal. So don’t do weird freaky stuff to women that you are not fond of. Women appreciate a variety of exciting sexual adventures, but only with the right people at the right time. If you need to try something a bit eccentric, ask the woman first. Make sure that you respect her feelings too and do not try to selfishly have your own way with her in bed.