If you are stuck in the friend zone, then that is unfortunate. This is nowhere a man wants to be when he really likes a lady. You might wonder exactly how much longer it will take for her to decide to be intimate with you. Well, there is of course no clear cut answer to this question. A woman’s willingness to be intimate with you will depend on various factors.
A lady’s decision to become intimate can be based on any one or combination of the following factors:
1. Your dominant stature
Women are instantly attracted to the dominant factor in men. They automatically respond to the alpha trait without even realizing it. It is no surprise that some women will almost instantly fall in the hands of men who display dominance, power and masculinity. These men are able to attract more female attention than less dominant men. If you are one of these types of men, then expect women to be sexually attracted to you within minutes of your meeting. Although we are humans, the same principle of natural selection still flows in our blood. As much as we want to deny the facts, we are still affected by natural life instincts.
2. Your physical appearance
Women are attracted to physical features of a man as well. You do not have to be a bodybuilding model, but your physique and appearance can determine her moves. A man who stands with a dominant posture, who is groomed and bears somebody tone, will be considered attractive to some women.
3. Your level of confidence
Women like men who are confident in themselves. They take longer to attract to men who are shy or timid. In a woman’s eye, men should be courageous, strong in their beliefs and confident in themselves.
4. Maturity in age
Regardless of the fact that maturity is not necessarily determined by age, women still prefer men who are older than them even today. Women typically want to believe that when they get older, they will still look younger than their man. In her view point, an older man should have many years of experience in life. He should also have accumulated a substantial amount of wealth and be ready to settle down with her. For this reason, many young women will gravitate almost instantaneously to an older man than themselves.
5. Your degree of power and authority
Men with some degree of authority, power and respectability are appealing to women. They love powerful men who can take charge and take control of their lives. Men who exert power and authority tend to have more drive and determination in getting ahead in life. Women are aware of this and look toward compelling men to lead them in a positive life.
6. Your degree of wealth
We all know that ‘money talks’. If a lady knows that you are very wealthy, she might decide to sleep with you in just a few seconds after meeting you. With the economic constraints faced by some women, all of the above factors probably would not matter, once you are wealthy. We live in a materialistic world, and a woman would be willing to marry you on the sole basis of your wealth. She wants to know that her every need will be taken care of, and that you will be able to support her offspring. If you are wealthy and want a woman to love you and not your money, it is probably best not to reveal your wealth until you are both very much in love with each other.
There can be a strong physical attraction even the very first moment you meet each other. Some women know that they would sleep with a man she finds appealing for whatever reason, the very first few minutes of meeting him. A woman knows exactly what she wants before dating. She will analyze and assess her suitors and decide who is best for her. She might get lucky sometimes to almost fall in love after meeting a man for the first time. The emotional, spiritual and physical connections we share are a mystery. There is no known fact about how these determine who we like, who we are physically attracted to and who we will eventually spend our lives with. Some people are fortunate enough to live in love without knowing their partners any more than a few weeks or months before tying the knot. Nonetheless, a strong emotional connection can be sensed within the first few seconds of an encounter.
Things women take notice of when assessing a man:
1. Aspects of his persona that she might like -Your charm, mannerism, countenance and so on.
2. Timidity, fear, confidence lust in his eyes – A confident man will not avoid eye contact.
3. His masculine scent – Your perfume, body wash, or pure body odor can turn women on.
4. His essence – Women can detect emotional and spiritual connection the moment she meets you.
5. She will definitely notice your bulge – Most women will take a downward glance to get an idea of what you have to offer her in bed.
A woman can decide that she wants to have sex with you after a few seconds to several weeks or months after meeting you. Some women know exactly what they are looking for, and when they find it they don’t hesitate to grasp the opportunity of clutching you in their arms. Other women are more cautious and less trusting towards men. These women will analyze and assess their man, making sure that she can trust him long before she decides that she will have any physical interaction with him. Your luck with being intimate with a woman you like might vary. But who knows, you might share a strong physical attraction at first sight. Her decision about sex will depend on the strength of your attraction. Make sure to stand your ground, be the sexually confident man you were meant to be. Maybe you will be the one she decides to be intimate with.