Dating is no easy task for anyone. Meeting a nice lady online, getting her to go on a date with you and then blowing it at the hookup phase, would make a guy go nuts. You just had to do something awkward. Maybe go silent on her, tried to touch her inappropriately or simply saying the wrong things. Whatever you did to upset her cannot be undone. It’s all over in no time and you are left to lick your wounds. If you really liked the girl, of course you would try to think of things to do to win her heart again. Before you go chasing after her affection, make sure that you really want her. Maybe for sex or love, chasing after someone you are truly not interested in is a total waste of time. Here are some great second chance tactics to get you back on track.
Offer her an apology
An apology is the first best approach to win back a woman’s heart. Be a man and take responsibility for your actions. If you were wrong, then you should admit your error. There is no point trying to speak with her without admitting that you were wrong. Women like a man who is not afraid to take responsibility for his actions and offer an apology. Doing this will definitely impress her. Chances are, she will accept your apology and move on to the next date.
Offer her something special
Try to contact her. If you cannot contact her but know where she works or where she hangs out, make an effort to meet her. Offer her a charming gift, whether a card expressing your feelings for her, candies, flowers or cuddly stuffed animals. Whatever you offer, make sure it is something that women like. You can also try to be humorous and give her something to add a smile on her face.
Offer to do something for her
Women like when men run errands for them. It helps them feel in control of the situation, and also gives them a sense of reassurance that the man doing the task actually cares about them. Offer to cook her favorite meal, walk her dog, grocery shop with her. Little errands like these can go a long way in winning a woman’s heart. Be careful not to send the wrong message. Some women might use your helpfulness to their best advantage, making you do things out of your league.
Be patient with her
Girls like to play hard with the guys. They love the chase and the attention that they are getting. Don’t feel that your efforts will reap immediate results. She might have a change of heart way before she makes you aware of it. Give her some time to decipher the situation. She needs to be sure that you mean what you say before she tries to hook up with you again. You may or may not be successful. Try not to call her or bug her about the relationship too much. The last thing you want is for her to be annoyed with you. All you can do is be nice, be patient and wait for her to act.
Show her that you are serious
If you really want her to take you seriously, you in turn have to be honest about your behavior. Do not expect to be dating other women and win her back. She will look for you to act on statements. If you really need a second chance with her, it is not a good idea to hook up with someone. Take some time off from the dating scene. Reflect on your true priorities. If she is the one you want whether for sex or relationship, then win her attention by showing some level of commitment.
Losing this girl might have hurt your ego, and perhaps you suffer from low self-esteem. Whatever the situation, do not show your lack of confidence. Do what you have to do under normal circumstances to win her back. Nonetheless, do not beg for her affection. Show her respect, but do not go overboard and brood and beg for her mercy. Women like men who are confident and who stand up for themselves and take what they want.
Although you really like her and you messed up, there is no point trying to win her back if she shows no interest in a second hookup. Do not stalk her or beg her to be with you. Women hate these types of behaviors. If you tried everything and they don’t work, she obviously does not want to be with you. There is nothing that can be done from here except snap out of it and move on.