In these modern days, places to meet your potential mate can be found anywhere. It could be that quaint little café on the 5th street, the subway, in your office or even in the comforts of your own home – the computer. Having a hook up buddy can be both exciting and fun because it is the idea of having the thrill of not being with each other physically all the time even when you both want to just heighten the carnal longing that you two feel for each other. Imagine wanting to do the deed with this person who lives in the next town and the anticipation only makes both your blood reaches high temperature that makes the wait more exciting and excruciating all at the same time. The question of whether or not to send romantic messages to your hook up buddy is always subjective. It all depends on what you two are into in terms of foreplay, naughty conversations and in-bed action preferences. So, if you think this hook up person don’t mind “sex-ting” for added pleasure, by all means do so. Read on for some tips as to how to execute your sexting messages into something that could make her want you more…
Always Keep Something for The Actual Bedroom Rendezvous’
The mission here is simple: Increase the anticipation for both parties until you get to the actual hook up. Sexting does not mean you start and finish the deed in mere text alone. Use your mobile phone to make him or her wonder what else you are willing to do with the person once you are under the sheets. Tease the other person by sending a naughty message that says you are “already bare” down under or by sending an image of the part of your butt cheeks wearing that silk lace underwear you just got from the special lingerie section or just the fact that you can no longer wait to feel what it’s like being cuffed to the bed once again. Promote the longing for each other by tickling their imagination.
Live Up To Your Messages
Do not pretend you are going to be the ultimate sex machine in text messaging when all you will ever going to be in the bedroom is a laid back lad wanting some slow and candle lit sex-capade. Always remember to live up to your messages because this will be the very same expectations your hook up buddy will have run through their minds until you finally meet each other again. Being playful is fine, in fact if you happen to have a vivid imagination and have successfully created a sexy story plot in all your online and mobile text messaging, all you have to do is to maintain consistency with it. This might even work for you because if your partner is on the same page as you are, she will be totally into it and participate in your fantasy more than you can ever imagine.
Privacy Is the Best Policy
Okay so you guys have already been enjoying all these exciting sexting and online messages and either or both of you have decided to keep it. Remember though to store it in a place (or cyber place) that is free from the eyes of the public. Treat your naughty messages, sexting files and all other cyber flirting images as something very private (even if you are only in a casual sexual relationship with your current partner). Unless you have plans of being a porn star, nobody wants all their sexting triumphs as well as their sexy images exposed right? Use passwords if you think it would work for you.
Sexting is a fun, creative and exciting way to deal with time apart from your hook up buddy. If you are currently in the stage of enjoying each others bodies, sexual preferences, bed-fantasies and the thought of not having any commitment to this person then you know that sexting will work for the both of you. Besides if you think your partner would somehow be shocked or even turned off with this naughty deed, you can always ask him or her if they’re into it or not. If you don’t want to be embarrassed by rejection, why not try and text them something a little bit naughty but not as explicit as sexting itself to check where you can go from there. Hey buddy, just like in the bedroom, everyone wants a little foreplay to warm things up a bit don’t you think? Maybe all you need is a little something like that – in text. Good luck!