Your First Date: Tips for Maximizing Your Chances of Closing the Deal
If you don’t get laid on the first date, should you consider it a failure? In most case, yes. But there are certain exceptions. If she’s on her period, for example, you won’t get laid (unless you don’t mind having blood all over your bed). But unless you absolutely refuse to sleep with a girl on the first date – which is totally fine – you should consider the night a failure if you don’t get laid.
Be positive on your date. Before heading out, tell yourself that you’re going to get laid. Look your best because not only will it impress her, you’ll feel more confident. It’s true. The better you look, the better you feel. When out on your date, give off positive vibes. Your body language should indicate you are friendly, confident, and attracted to her.
Do not cross your arms when talking to her. Women are very good at spotting negative body language. When you close your arms up, it gives off the impression you’re not interested in the person you’re talking to. Make sure your body is positioned in a manner that shows interest. That means you shouldn’t lean back away from her in your chair. Lean forward while talking and while she is speaking to you.
Also, make sure you smile. Some guys are naturally laid back and don’t realize they never smile when having a conversation. We aren’t suggesting you should fake the smile. It should be genuine. Just make sure you do it. If you want her to be interested in you, it’s essential to give off positive vibes. The way you act and the body language signs you give off will determine how positive the vibes you are giving off.
The Best Place to Take a Girl You Just Met from an Adult Hook Up Dating Website
In our opinion, there really is only one great place to take a chick on a first date when you’re just looking for sex. That place is a quiet lounge. We understand that not everyone drinks. We still think that’s where you should go. Have an Iced Tea or a soda instead of alcohol. You’re not going there to get drunk. You’re going there to get to know this chick.
A quiet lounge is perfect because it’s likely to be somewhat dark (this helps set the mood) and intimate (also helps set the mood). Don’t take her out to dinner. It’s a waste of time. You’re trying to hookup with her, not start a long-term relationship. Save the cheesy, boring dates for when you’re looking for more than just sex. For now, stick with quiet lounges (after dinner, before the bar rush crowd arrives). Meet her, charm her for a bit, and get her back to your place. Don’t waste time. 45 minutes to an hour is PLENTY of time. Anything more than an hour spent at the bar is too long.